Happy Birthday LaLa

Jia's LaLa (Aunt Lisa) had a birthday on November 20th and today we celebrated as a family at Jia's grandma and grandpa's house (as always - thanks mom and dad). Here are a few pictures showing the beautiful Lisa and her equally beautiful children. Jia loves a chance weekend meeting with her in-town cousins, Aunt LaLa and Uncle Dave!

Jia continues to be incredibly clingy with me - I'm guessing it's because she just doesn't get enough mommy time during the week. As she gets older she'll better understand but in the meantime - she is lovingly cared for by her Aunt Lisa during the week while I work - a true second mommy the way Lisa loves and cares for her - plus Jia gets the added bonus of having all of her in-town cousins company. Thank you Lisa - I don't know how I'd pull this off without you - I certainly wouldn't be able to with such comfort knowing you are taking such wonderful care of Jia. Love you kiddo. (Lisa has been a part of our family since she met my brother at the ripe old age of 15 - so both she and my brother will always be "kiddo" to me!).

Oh - and p.s. - Jia got her first haircut - more on that later! But you'll see it in these pictures!

Lovely

Just one picture says it all. I miss Jia more and more everyday when I'm at work. She's the most delightful part of my day.

Am I 17 months or a movie star? Or both?

Oh the moods of a toddler. Jen, in one of her recent blog posts, captured the challenges of a toddler so vividly I felt I was actually there with her. These kids vacillate between charming movie star and queen of a horror flick so fast it's amazing! I had Jia on my hip or at my legs ALL weekend long. Ehh, ehh, ehh, ehh, aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, ehh, ehh, ehh, AAAAAAAAAAAAAA, ehh, ehh, ehh, giggle, giggle, smack. And I know there are super mommies out there. You know the kind - all of this makes them smile and coo and knowingly nod their heads. It's just a phase. Aren't they cute? What do you need next sweetie? You want to be picked up? Of course, you need your mommy - I'm here to do anything you need and couldn't be more happy to do it. Are there moms who exist that are actually LIKE that? God love them, literally. I mean, I do FEEL all those things but sometimes I also just feel so exhausted! A long bath and a glass of wine does THIS mommy good.

A few pics from the weekend.

Open and Shut Them, Open and Shut Them

Any of you who have been through Music Together or had a child or grandchild in Montessori knows the title to this song. It's very cute and Jia loves it. However, it takes on an entirely different meaning while exploring around the house. Every door and cabinet gets this treatment. We knew it was coming and it's officially here! She's very much like her daddy in that if she opens a cabinet and gets something out it is very important to follow through with actually shutting the door - even if it means backtracking steps to put things in order. While spending time with my friend and colleague Kitty today I commented on the sweet potatoes on my pants. She asked - "Does Jia eat anything else?" :) Very funny and understandable comment. But I laughted and assured her our little firestorm does have days where she practically eats us out of house and home. Her Aunt Lisa keeps a record each day of Jia's food, excursions, activities, etc. Here is the list of food Jia ate TODAY:

6:50 am - 6 oz. formula and about 10 cheerios

9:00 am - cereal bar, grapenut cereal, yogurt balls

11:30 am - spaghetti with meatballs, kool-aid

3:00 pm - 1 Chick-Fillet Nugget, 1 fry, 5 oz. chocolate milk

4:10 pm - popcorn, picked apart (to avoid choking hazard), cran-rasberry juice

4:30 pm - 3 oz chocolate milk, sweet potato puffs (lots)

5:50 pm - half a container of microwaveable mac-n-cheese, 1 container stage 2 apple/sweet-potato baby food

7:00 pm - 1 oz. formula

The early morning and dinner and bedtime food happened at home - the rest Aunt Lisa had to come up with! And our little one is still not 20lbs! Although at her latest appt. she weighed in at 18 lbs 15 oz. so we're getting there! She has 4 molars cutting through so she is fairly miserable and has had several days in the past week where she rejects almost anything you put in front of her and just wants to suck her bottle. She's getting old for that but I'm just not going to worry about it. We don't offer that first and she gets lots of good nutrition but some days - well, she just wants comfort. I doubt she'll be walking down the aisle to get married with a bottle of formula! It all works itself out naturally! Right?

Here are some pics of Jia with her Daddy and at home.

7 of the Best Years of My Life

Happy 50th Anniversary to my parents. My mom and dad have had an incredible impact on my life and it is only as good as it is because of them. Thank you - from the bottom of my heart.

You have raised 3 successful, well adjusted, happy humans. And now enjoy 7 beautiful smart grandchildren. Wow. They've enjoyed many other successes along the way but I know their family is their most important accomplishment and we feel that everyday.

Both of my parents have an incredible sense of humor and they make me smile and laugh regularly. Many anniversaries have been celebrated as a family and my dad always thanks my mom for 7 of the best years of his life! :) They are truly the epitome of wonderful parents. Our family has always been so very functional that I joke our only dysfunction is how functional we are!

Thank you mom and dad. I love you deeply.

As grandparents your fabulousness continues. If that is not a word, I don't care! Here are a few pictures of Jia because I know you miss her since you've been out on your vacation trip. She misses you too!

p.s Yes, I know there are sweet potato stains on Jia's high chair - bad mommy!

Why I'm Not Skinny

Ok - I've been tagged! Thanks Jen - now I have to tell weird things about myself! :)

This is Jen's wonderful blog about her beautiful family. Jennifer's daughter Kelly and Jia were best friends in the orphanage. I'm amazed that we found each other on-line! We were not in China at the same time.

http://tochinaforkelly.blogspot.com/

There is a huge pool of things to pull from - I'll do my best to limit it to just seven!

1. I have chronic insomnia and wake up with a racing mind. A friend once told me a transcendental meditation trick is to pick a number and in your mind trace it over and over on an imagined black board to help fall asleep. Stupidly, I picked the number 8. Why didn't I pick the number 1?

2. I eat chocolate at 10 am - routinely. (See title of this post.)

3. I wake up with a tune in my head everyday - lately it has involved Blue's Clues - but sometimes it's a bad Barry White song.

4. I've colored my hair since I was 25 - I've always wanted to be a natural red head.

5. I wish I could write for a living. David Sedaris is my hero. Instead I'm a businesswoman............zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

6. As a young woman I said one of my dating criteria was that I'd never date a guy with a butt smaller than mine. It severely limited my dating pool.

7. I get out of bed at 5:30 am every morning. Not interesting but a fact. An exhausting one.

I don't have the 7 blogs to link to! I'll work on that and add later!

Last Minute Campaign Calls

Jia made some last minute calls to rally support for her favorite Presidential candidate. Let's hope they pan out.

Old Time Rock 'n Roll

Jia is walking. Yes, I've said it before. But now she is down right brave, lets go, and takes off. Doesn't she look like she's doing the Tom Cruise slide in that one picture? That's a reference from the movie Risky Business for those too young to know or to those with more discerning movie taste than I. She's also cutting big molars and was very needy of mommy tonight. I hate that she feels bad. But it is rare that this firestorm wants to cuddle so I'm happy, happy, happy to give her anything she needs. Do you recall my post on the joys of a box of tissues? Ditto on a box of Hello Kitty bandaids. She litterally played for over an hour with the box. The way the bandaids sounded when she shook it fascinated her. She also played for a long time with a simple plastic cup and the top to a bottle - in - out - in - out. Some of the pics show her intense level of concentration as she tries to figure out how things work.

I want to say hi to Kathy , her hubby, her mom and brother Bob. I had a wonderful conversation with Kathy today (I hope you don't mind me mentioning that) and my thoughts, prayers, hopes are with you and your family that referrals start coming more quickly and you get your daughter soon. I so enjoyed our conversation.

Go 'Skins!

My dad and brother are already pumping Jia up to be this country's next diehard Redskins fan! A few random pics from the weekend. Also - ignore the picture of me but look at that gorgeous hat Jia has on - thanks Laura! Jia's Aunt Laura is a very talented knitter and this is one of her creations!! I also captured a couple of shots of Jia's cousins Melissa and David. We can't wait until Christmas when the Illinois cousins and Aunt and Uncle get here!

Happy Family

The first couple of photos are some great shots that my dad took of us. At 6 and 12 months we have to send various information to China to complete all necessary aspects of our adoption. We didn't have any photos of the three of us together (well, there was one - but I looked like a mutant) so we gathered at the folks house to enjoy good company, a great meal (thanks mom) and some picture taking. Jia is walking! Holy cow I buried the lead! (Yes, I saw Broadcast News recently.) She can now independently walk across a room! I am the ever worried mommy walking right behind her since we have had a face plant or two along the way. But she is soooo proud of herself and rightfully so. If you don't remember how far we've come check out my May posts! She is an extraordinary little human. Her personality is really coming out and she cracks me up daily. She's a happy baby. Truly happy baby. She is talking more now as well. She says I love you ( admittedly much like I have once or twice after too many martinis... iiiii wooooove uuuuuu) and good girl, and thank you, and Bella (Lisa's dog) and on and on. She understands EVERYTHING it seems - I ask her to look at my mouth as I pronounce something and she does. I tell her she is making herself abundantly clear when she wails and she smiles at me. Cool, cool, cool. p.s Happy Belated Birthday my dear husband. 40. Wow. Good thing I married someone so much older than me. heh.

Stunning

Welcome to Toddlerville

Jia is officially a toddler - in case anyone was wondering. Pick me up. No, don't hold me. I want to walk, no pick me up. What's in this drawer? Mom, where are you? I want to walk. No, I want to run. Stop here, I want to feel this. Pick me up. Cry for no apparent reason. Laugh because life is amusing me at the moment. Look what I found on the floor. I think I'll put this in my mouth. Don't change my diaper. I don't want to wear shoes. This sweater is a no-no. Where are you going? Pick me up. No, I want to walk. All with out uttering a word. Amazing.

All is Well

Sorry for the delay in posting. I've been under the weather but the clouds are clearing and I do believe I'm on the mend. Jia is great - she didn't have/get whatever I have thankfully. Jia continues to be very close to walking - and she's eating and sleeping ALOT. She spent 45 minutes in her high chair tonight and I had to limit the food I put in front of her for fear she would choke herself! She couldn't get it in fast enough! And it's not like Aunt Lisa hadn't fed her a tremendous amount already today. Lisa weighed her and she's up another pound from a month ago. Yippie. Lisa is also unhappy that her little fat rolls on her thighs are disappearing! heh. Life is good - what more can I say? The dad is off for a four day weekend and it's just me and Jia this weekend. Wish me luck. She's a little firestorm these days.